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Settling In

It's been a few weeks since I quit my job and I'm finally feeling less anxiety about it. I've had more than enough time to evaluate the state of my life and what needs to be done moving forward. I'm learning that it's ok to not be on the go all of the time. I'm learning it's permissible to drop off of the map to heal, regroup and recharge. Feeling guilt over quitting, I realized was more about others people's perceptions about what I should be doing. Living up to other people's expectations is not my goal. Living life healthy and  being at peace is the goal. I've sacrificed my peace and health for too long, but no more. As selfish as it may sound, It's all about Melanie. Don't get me wrong, I'm not walking around with my head in the clouds ignoring people, but I am giving my attention to those things attention worthy and leaving the messiness of other people's lives to them to fix. I'm getting better at delegating and direct...